{"id":35805,"date":"1997-11-17T00:00:00","date_gmt":"1997-11-17T00:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/dailyvault.adishjain.in\/index.php\/reviews\/stones-in-the-road\/"},"modified":"1997-11-17T00:00:00","modified_gmt":"1997-11-17T00:00:00","slug":"stones-in-the-road","status":"publish","type":"review","link":"https:\/\/dailyvault.adishjain.in\/index.php\/reviews\/stones-in-the-road\/","title":{"rendered":"Stones In The Road"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Mary Chapin Carpenter&#8217;s long-time musical<br \/>\ncollaborator\/co-producer\/guitarist John Jennings has called her<br \/>\nvoice &#8220;an invitation to intimacy.&#8221; Not physical intimacy, he&#8217;s<br \/>\nquick to add, but the emotional kind. And truly, her honey-sweet<br \/>\ntone and masterful phrasing on everything from the stillest of her<br \/>\nballads to her hardest-rocking flirtations suggest he&#8217;s zeroed on<br \/>\none of the keys to her appeal.<\/p>\n<p>What amazes me as a listener on this particular album, however,<br \/>\nis not so much the skill of the singer as it is the power of the<br \/>\nsongs. In a development that will undoubtedly come as a shock to<br \/>\npeople who have bought into some of the more insulting stereotypes<br \/>\nof &#8220;country&#8221; music, this album is one of the<br \/>\n<i>wisest<\/i> I&#8217;ve ever heard. Every single lyric is infused with<br \/>\nan intelligence and emotional maturity that&#8217;s by turns startling<br \/>\nand engrossing.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;In this world there&#8217;s a whole lot of trouble baby \/ In this<br \/>\nworld there&#8217;s a whole lot of pain \/ In this world there&#8217;s a whole<br \/>\nlot of trouble but \/ A whole lot of ground to gain,&#8221; Carpenter<br \/>\nbegins, establishing the theme of resiliency that echoes through<br \/>\nthis entire album, even as the song&#8217;s country-gospel sound &#8211;<br \/>\nanchored by piano, fiddle and a chorus of background vocalists &#8211;<br \/>\nreinforces its spiritual undercurrents.<\/p>\n<p>As if constructing a novel, she moves then from establishing her<br \/>\nprincipal theme to a bit of character history, illustrating in the<br \/>\nsteadily-rocking &#8220;House Of Cards,&#8221; a possibly autobiographical<br \/>\nvision of a suburban childhood where &#8220;On the surface it looked so<br \/>\nsafe \/ But it was perilous underneath.&#8221; In the title tune that<br \/>\nfollows, the search for emotional connections that ring true<br \/>\nextends from the family out into the broader society. A folkish<br \/>\nhymn to lost innocence, &#8220;Stones in the Road&#8221; places on the table<br \/>\nthe idealism of a generation that admired Martin Luther King and<br \/>\nBobby Kennedy &#8211; and then carves up the self-satisfaction it has<br \/>\ndegenerated into: &#8220;We pencil in, we cancel out, we crave the corner<br \/>\nsuite \/ We kiss your ass, we make you hold, we doctor the<br \/>\nreceipt&#8230; A thousand points of light or shame \/ Baby, I don&#8217;t<br \/>\nknow.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Turning inward once again, Carpenter then steers us through a<br \/>\nmelodic, fully-realized series of life lessons. First &#8220;Tender When<br \/>\nI Want To Be&#8221; makes a rippling plea for breaking down emotional<br \/>\nbarriers (&#8220;Don&#8217;t ever let me hesitate \/ To be tender when I want to<br \/>\nbe&#8221;). Then &#8220;A Keeper For Every Flame&#8221; offers a sharp little fable<br \/>\nabout the way romantic longing sometimes overpowers realism (&#8220;I<br \/>\nthought my heart was broken but it was just a little bruised \/ I<br \/>\nthought love had spoken, guess I was just confused&#8221;). Soon after,<br \/>\nthe title of &#8220;The Last Word&#8221; serves as the unsung punchline to a<br \/>\nstark, compelling retelling of two lovers&#8217; final confrontation: &#8220;I<br \/>\nfinally realized \/ You need it more than you need me \/ You can have<br \/>\nit, I don&#8217;t want it, and when you&#8217;ve got it, I&#8217;ll be gone.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Leavening the mix smack in the middle of the album is &#8220;Shut Up<br \/>\nAnd Kiss Me,&#8221; a rollicking come-on that nonetheless has wisdom<br \/>\naplenty of its own to impart: &#8220;There&#8217;s something about the silent<br \/>\ntype \/ Attracting me to you \/ All business baby, none of the hype \/<br \/>\nThat no talker can live up to.&#8221; Some juicy slide guitar from Lee<br \/>\nRoy Parnell and Trisha Yearwood&#8217;s background vocals round out this<br \/>\nfive minute party\/intermission, before it&#8217;s back to business with<br \/>\nseveral more well-crafted looks at the ways we constantly search<br \/>\nfor connections (including the remarkable &#8220;John Doe No. 24,&#8221; with<br \/>\nits soaring Branford Marsalis sax work).<\/p>\n<p>Finally, Carpenter falls back as if spent to the core of her<br \/>\nargument: the key to resiliency is love &#8211; but not necessarily<br \/>\nromantic love. The purest love, she argues in the closing &#8220;This is<br \/>\nLove,&#8221; is less about passion and romance than it is about a<br \/>\nfundamental commitment to the other person&#8217;s emotional well-being.<br \/>\nIt is a love that, in the end, grants you peace by being able to<br \/>\novercome even the hardest of hard feelings (a theme Don Henley hit<br \/>\na career peak on with &#8220;The Heart Of The Matter&#8221;). Listen in for a<br \/>\nminute as the piano rolls to a steadily ascending beat, crowned by<br \/>\nthe last line:<\/p>\n<p class=\"c4\">&#8220;And I see you still and there&#8217;s this catch in my<br \/>\nthroat and<\/p>\n<p class=\"c4\">I just swallow hard til it leaves me<\/p>\n<p class=\"c4\">There&#8217;s nothing in this world that can change what we<br \/>\nknow<\/p>\n<p class=\"c4\">Still I know I am here if you ever need me<\/p>\n<p class=\"c4\">And this is love&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>For anyone who&#8217;s ever experienced any real turbulence in their<br \/>\nrelationships, these lines are likely to carry the power of<br \/>\nwell-delivered two-by-four. Love hurts, Carpenter seems to say, but<br \/>\nwhen we succeed in riding that pain out and returning to our<br \/>\neternal search for connection, we win the only battle we&#8217;ll ever<br \/>\nreally need to in our lifetime. To me, the thirteen exceptionally<br \/>\nwell-written and played songs on<br \/>\n<i>Stones In The Road<\/i> speak wisdom of a quality that is as rare<br \/>\nin popular music as true love is in life itself.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":12,"featured_media":24601,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","template":"","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"footnotes":""},"tags":[],"artist":[5880],"rating":[5646],"class_list":["post-35805","review","type-review","status-publish","has-post-thumbnail","artist-mary-chapin-carpenter","rating-rating-a"],"acf":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/dailyvault.adishjain.in\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/review\/35805","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/dailyvault.adishjain.in\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/review"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/dailyvault.adishjain.in\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/review"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dailyvault.adishjain.in\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/12"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dailyvault.adishjain.in\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=35805"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/dailyvault.adishjain.in\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/review\/35805\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dailyvault.adishjain.in\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/24601"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/dailyvault.adishjain.in\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=35805"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dailyvault.adishjain.in\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=35805"},{"taxonomy":"artist","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dailyvault.adishjain.in\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/artist?post=35805"},{"taxonomy":"rating","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dailyvault.adishjain.in\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/rating?post=35805"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}